So Your Partner Wants to Do a Couples Boudoir Shoot... and You’re Not on Board Yet

This is just a chill guide for the guy who’s lowkey panicking about couples boudoir

Hey, you. Yes, you—the partner reading this.

First of all, props for being curious enough to read this.
Second of all—don’t freak out.
This is not about being naked on camera, being “extra,” or pretending to be someone you’re not.

This is about connection. Real-life, what-you’ve-built-together, “damn, we still got it” energy.
And spoiler: you don’t have to be a model (or even photogenic) to crush this experience.

🔥 WTF Is The Tangled Experience?

It’s a luxury couples session created for people who want more than the basic “awkward prom pose in matching outfits” photo shoot.

You’ll get:

• 3 styled sets – each with a different vibe (you help pick them)

• 75 professionally edited digital images

• A keepsake of your choice (think: custom magazines, an heirloom album, or the exclusive Photo Lockbox—only available through this session)

Common Objections (AKA What You’re Probably Thinking)

❌ “I’m not photogenic.”

Dude—no one thinks they are. But she thinks you’re hot, and I promise you’ll look even better when you're comfortable and connecting. I guide every pose from your jaw to your hands. No guesswork.

❌ “This is gonna be way too sexy for me.”

Nope. It’s spicy, yes—but it’s about intimacy, not porn-level posing. You’ll be clothed (or not) based on your comfort. I’ve photographed couples in t-shirts and jeans who looked hotter than half-naked models.

❌ “I’ll feel awkward the whole time.”

Only for the first 7 minutes. Then we’re vibing, laughing, and you’re lowkey forgetting the camera is even there. Plus—I direct literally everything. Think wedding photos… just with less clothing, no in-laws, and you get to see your partner’s butt in the fancy panties all day..

❌ “Why would we even do this?”

Because life is busy, routine gets dull, and this is one hell of a reminder that what you’ve got is still magic. You don’t need a reason. Just a “hell yes” and a date on the calendar.

Because she wants an excuse to wear the fancy panties all day instead of the comfortable cotton ones. and she wants an excuse for you to tell her she’s super hot and try to jump her bones later.

Because she really wants to do this, dude, and you like her...a lot.

❌ “What if I get a little too... excited?”

Buddy. You’re human. If it happens, no big deal—we take a break, breathe, and reset. I’m a professional, and there’s zero shame or judgment.

(And honestly? She’ll take it as a compliment.)

((And because someone will ask—No I do not photograph intercourse. No you cannot have sex in my studio. I won’t even photograph any human genitals.))

❌ “Whoa—that’s expensive.”

Let’s break it down.

You’d drop this much on a weekend getaway, a FANCY CAR PART, or another gun to stash in the back of the safe—and those don’t include 75 images of your partner looking like your dream woman come to life. [and they definitely won’t get you laid]

This isn’t “just photos.” It’s a one-of-a-kind experience—and a memory you’ll both come back to again and again.

(Also: payment plans exist. You’re not buying a RAZR)

❌ “I’ve got a dad bod.”

Cool. Same energy as 90% of the couples I photograph—and guess what?

Dad bods photograph like kings when the love is real and the lighting is good. This isn’t about abs. It’s about connection. And your partner? Already thinks you’re hot. Let me prove her right.

Quick FAQ

Q: Are we going to be naked?
Only if you want to be. You can be fully clothed, half-clothed, or wrapped in sheets. This is about vibe, not skin.

Q: What do we wear?
Whatever makes you feel confident. I’ll guide you through outfit options. Robes, button-downs, jeans, briefs, boxers, tees—all good.

Q: Do I need to pose or “act sexy”?
Nah. You just need to show up and follow my lead. It’ll feel more like hanging out with your partner while someone (me) hypes you up and says “MOVE HERE. YES! DO THAT!”

Nope. I guide everything. You won’t be left wondering where your hands go or how to smolder. It’s like wedding photos… but less clothes and a lot more fun 😉

Q: What if I get a BONER?

(Yes, we’re putting it in both sections—because men will look.)

No judgment. It happens [although not as much as you think]
I pause, you regroup. Everyone survives. But no you can’t have sex in my studio.

Q: Will you post our photos online?
Don’t worry I won’t tell the boys you did this. images are Only shared if you say yes. Your privacy is fully respected. MaNY couples choose to keep theirs for private viewing only.

💬 Real Couple:

“It was sexy to see my man willing to step out of his comfort zone WITH me. We were both nervous. But more than anything—it was fun. It wasn’t much different than other photo sessions we’ve done... we were just dressed in less. And these photos are proof that we’re still fun and sexy, even with more life behind us.”

💡 TL;DR:

• You’re not gonna look dumb

• You don’t have to strip down

• You might even enjoy it

• She will absolutely remember this forever

• And let’s be honest—this beats another weekend trip to Home Depot for one of her projects.

🎯 Still got questions?

Shoot me a message. No pressure.
I’m chill, I swear.

– Tara
Your judgment-free hype woman and expert in turning “hell no” into “that was actually kinda hot”